Attitude Is Everything
What happens to you is less significant than what happens within you.
Two forces are at work around you, external and internal.You have very little control over external forces such as hurricanes, earthquakes, disasters, sickness and pain.What really matters is the internal force. How do you respond to those disasters? Over that, you have complete control.
No one on earth can hurt you, unless you accept the hurt in your own mind. The problem is not other people, it's your reaction to them.
You cannot always control your circumstances.But you can control your own thoughts.